Relationships, by Cindy

I think facebook is mostly a big waste of time and I hardly ever post on it anymore (compared to before…..) but every now and then I see something that really resonates with me and I feel the need to share it, or at least post it here so that I have easy access to it later.

Today a friend of mine posted something really transparent and honest and one of her friends, Cindy, gave this advice to her. Not only did it get the thumbs up from me, but I even Ctrl-C’d and V’d it right here. Also, I love talking about stuff like this. I love hearing about people’s struggles, challenges and ultimately their successes. I love finding out about people’s journeys and their passions. We are all here figuring out our lives, might as well take care of each other and help each other out. This is what I offer my friends. Come over (once I find a house) and we’ll open up a bottle of wine and talk about life. Or, we can use the Marco Polo app and talk it out that way. BTW, if you don’t have Marco Polo on your phone you should check it out. What an amazing way to keep in touch. I use it almost daily with my crew.

“Relationships are like a bus line. Go to the corner and get on a bus that’s going in a direction you like. If the bus is going where you don’t like get off on the corner and wait for another bus. Another one will come along. You can’t control the bus. Don’t take the driver by gunpoint and lead him down another route. He is already driving his own route. Let him continue on it. There’s nothing wrong with his route it’s just not yours. The route you need will come to you! That’s the great part- you get to choose your route not someone else! Put the gun down let that bus Go!”